Fall 2014

Salem's 1st Birthday

Happy Birthday to our little darling girl. I'm telling ya, I love that squirrel! I think of those sweet cheeks and just want to gobble her up. She is growing into her little personality. She is a thinker, and LOVES pushing buttons, especially if it turns the TV or DVD player on or off. She is so content to crawl around the house and explore most of the day. She will periodically stop crawling and stand-up in the middle of the floor (just so we know she can) then resume activity.

Salem's Birth Story

A year ago today the Lord placed Salem Ann (whom we’ve lovingly dubbed Salem-ann-der) into my arms. I’ve desired to document her birth story since then, but today is the day.  To start you will need some background information.

I had asked my parents to come a week prior to her due date. Since our latest born child Hosea, was 2 days early.  The girls were even earlier. I felt a week was a good amount of time to play it safe. It was also near Christmas time, since her due date was December 24^th.  So I was highjacking the grandparents (mom and dad) from all the other family members during the Christmas holiday. As fate would have it, my older brother Ben and his family had decided to travel to Missouri from FRANCE, while mom and dad were waiting on ME to give birth. They were at mom and dad’s house while they were not there. I felt terrible about this. So I arranged for an induction to be done on the 22^nd. So mom and dad could get home to see my brother before he returned to France.  But my mother and Mike talked me out of the induction, as they both though I would prefer to labor naturally and they didn’t want me to be so accommodating in this situation. So we all waited around for little Salem to arrive. I felt so stressed out, because I truly did want mom and dad to get to see Ben. We waited….and waited…. And waited… on the 26^th, I phoned the doctor to re-schedule the induction.  Having so much attention on me was really difficult and added to the stress. Of course all my sweet friends would tell me to “relax, baby won’t come until you relax”. Then I grew anxious about my inability to relax. I was a ball of nerves people. What a mess!

I got the induction re-scheduled for the 28^th.  Mike and I woke early in the morning, drove through What-a-burger for an egg sandwich and checked in the Navel Hospital Pensacola. We got situated and turned on the history channel. We watched how all sorts of unusual foods were made, all morning. It was so relaxing. I receive cyotec, to dilate my cervix around 7 or 8, and my body started contracting and hour or two after that.  We continued to watch the history channel as the contractions came on closer and closer.  I was starting to transition, the TV needed to be turned off, and asked to be checked, she said  “5”, I thought that was very odd, because I was pretty sure baby was coming soon. I had one or two more contractions and asked to be checked again. She said “10”, that’s what I thought. The urge to push was there, no doctor in sight.  Mike moved to the foot of the bed, as he’s seen and heard how this can go.  The nurse quickly got gloves on, the doctor was called, she was down in the clinic. I pushed, baby was on her way, nurse caught her, baby was out, doctor walking in the door.  The doctor scolded me in some sort of fashion, and noted “that was quick”, I returned some sarcastic statement about her timing. Still not sure if she appreciated my jest.  All the post birth aftermath took place. And that was that. Her arrival was at 12:54 pm. Salem was a great eater from the first attempt. She knew just what to do. I was so thankful for all the answered prayers that came with that little bundle of joy.  During her pregnancy I prayed and asked God for everything I could think of that would make the transition from 3 children to 4 as smooth as possible and I am so thankful for the mercy He has shown to me and answering so many of my small particular requests.  So thankful to have a God who hears our prayers.

My stay at the hospital was very short, we left around noon the following day.  They seemed to think I had it under control.  I was a little disappointed that our “baby-cation” was so short lived, but also thrilled because I wanted to send mom and dad on their way. That following morning I was taking Salem’s pictures. I had packed a black blanket and a cute little knit santa hat a friend had given me and wanted to get some newborn shots of her while it was still just her and I. A doctor came in while I was doing it, I’m not sure if it was my doctor or her doctor. She asked if I was the mom? I replied yes. She stated that it looked like we were good and would be going home soon. I’m still not sure what her initial intent of coming in the room was? No one got checked. Just a funny memory. Any way… we got home, mom and dad left the next morning. They did get to see my brothers family for a few hours the evening prior and the morning of their departure. I’m glad that got to see them!!! I mean…..they traveled all the way from FRANCE!

November 2013 Photo Summery

Thanksgiving and Birthday Friends watching Charlie Brown.

 Lost his 1st and 2nd tooth.

 A strong fortruss to shoot down with daddy

 A meal with the Todarov's from Bulgaria.

  A little doll under the tree.

 Rocking

 Resting

 Helping

 Adventure

(She got stuck like this)

Birthday Fun 

 Morning birthday suprise

 Self-made knight in shining armor

Salem on the move

She's creeping out of infancy into toddlerhood. 9 months old today.  I wish the video wasn't so dark, small oversight. We tried.

August 2013

Salem is getting so big, she is now 8 months old and has become proficient at sitting up.

 Cheeks, just love em!

 Smiles

 Beautiful Baby

 I was trying to take Salem's picture sitting up and Aggie kept getting in front of me saying "Cheezzz".

 Shiloh was coordinating her outfit with the fan Mema and Papa got her from Spain.

 I asked the kids to go cheer Aggie up, I was cooking.  This is what they were doing, Hosea was hoping on his ball, Aggie loves this and Shiloh was letting her hop on herself.  Sweet little lady. And it worked. I find this scene often, but in different configurations, it almost always involves someone hoping, jumping or bouncing.

 We have accomplished 2 weeks of school!  Hosea is officially a kindergartener and Shiloh 2nd grader. So far we are all enjoying our new schedule, and chipping away at some great goals along the way.

 This is what our kitchen table looked like one day. I can't say it is a rare occurrence. It really captures this season of life for us. Note the portable Dvd player to distract Aggie while we attempt to get her to eat, the iPad, my laptop, mike's bible, Aggie's Mic-key connector, Salem's puffs, bill binder, random cup, 2 kids smoothies, and 2 baby trays (yellow and white). I think i see Shiloh's schedule cards too(no wonder she can never find them).  It is amazing we manage to eat 3 meals a day at this exact same location, I'm guessing this was a Sunday evening b/c of the smoothies? But may be not?

Fort Pickens Photo Shoo

Early in the summer we took the kids out to Fort Pickens to get some shots of them.  We got some nice ones, of course things hardly ever go as my idealistic self would prefer, but all in all, I'm pleased.  I've even made a photo card to send out to friends and family. I have them printed sitting in a pile somewhere. :/

I got the most good ones of Hosea, I guess he was feeling most cooperative.

 Best one of them all together.

 That lil nut of ours.

 She's getting hard to photograph, she's mastered all the poses and fake smiles.  But she has such a beautiful real smile, I just want the real smile. 

 This was an action shot that turned out.

 What a little doll, love her!

 I feel like this captures a lot of our family dynamics, uncensored. 

 Bright eyes.

Quick brain unload

 We were on a month long road trip June 18th to July 14th ish. We went to MO to see my family then to OH to see Mike's then up to Cleveland where we were able to speak with a Doctor who had recently done research on children with PDCD and how the ketogenic diet affect them. The diet has had nothing but positive effects on these children according to the study. The Dr. spent an hour and a half answering our questions, it was so helpful!! We also learned some good news.
1. Aggie looks very well for a female with the disease. That she has any form of mobility at all is remarkable. We are so thankful, and hopeful that she may someday walk.
2. If a female with the disease lives to be 4 years of age she will likely live into adulthood.  Since Aggie is 3 and well, things are looking good for a longer life. Good news to us.

Mike is out of the Marine Corp, he has applied to the Navy Reserves and once he is in; he is hoping to apply for a full time job with in the reserves. He is currently unemployed and the paper work for this transition can take 1-6 months.  He's getting a lot done around the house now that we are home.

We went to a parent practicum for classical conversations, our home-school group, for 3 days in July.  I did the tutor training, as I'm going to be a "tutor" (aka teacher) in one of our children's classrooms when we all meet on Tuesdays.

We started Aggie on the Ketogenic Diet 4 days ago. She is officially in ketosis, which is the goal.  It is suppose to supply a more useable form of energy for her.  She won't eat much(which is not the goal), but is drinking her new formula well.  Her temperament is relatively the same, which has large fluctuations on a normal day, so it's really hard to tell how she's feeling.

Salem is starting to roll all over the floor to get to what she wants. She is nearly 7 months old. It's nice to see her progressing. She's pretty cute and sweet. We love her!

Salem getting cup

Things like this tickle me.  I think it's b/c most of the things Aggie has done/accomplished have been taught by much repetition. So I have forgotten how healthy little ones are naturally curious and try their luck with learning all on their own.

Salem is a prodigy, she has grabbed a cup :)

On this note: post Aggie parenting........ I still, to this day, every time I change Salem's diaper/cloths or even just hold her, I find my self being cautious around her tummy as if to be sure not to disturb her G-button.

Salem's 1st Giggles

I caught the tail end of her 1st giggles, before she was wore out.  Hosea was the entertainment, which is no surprise, since he prides himself in his ability to cause us to "crack up".  She had about 3-4 other giggles that I missed as I was rushing to find the camera.  I always pause prior to grabbing the camera thinking should I just stop and enjoy this moment, soak it all in.  Or should I miss part of it in an attempt to capture it to enjoy in future and share with others?  Dilemmas....... Then of course after i got the camera I got just one of the exciting moments and then................silence.........crickets....

Salem

She's so cute, and funny and sweet.

Grins

See how she grows....

We've been getting some new faces.......

Some Sad

Still some concern in her brow

Some happy

 She's our little snuggle bug