The Clan

The Clan
" Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change." James 1:17

Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Happy Birthday Love!

Mike Celebrated his 32nd birthday on the 26th. It's a belated post.

This is Shiloh presenting her green (mike's favorite color) heart shaped card covered with sparkles on one side and birthday wishes on the other. She was very proud of her work.
Here Hosea is showing him his drawing of a "super hero" aka. stick man, also covered in glitter. This was the first time I could get Hosea to draw "super hero's" with out my help. He often gets frustrated, I was proud of him for trying.
This was a yummy orange dream-cicle cake. It was my first attempt, it was good, but not a home-run.
Happy Birthday you old man you!

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Inhale......deep breath....exhale. There that's better.

Wow...... I hardly know where to start with this blog of mine...... I want to keep people up to speed with the going's on of the clan, but I want to do it in a God glorifying, encouraging way. So here goes, a brief or not so brief synopsis of our life as of late......

Last week was difficult for me, I was generally discouraged, mostly about Aggie and some of her behavior that is less than ideal. Nothing phenomenal, but things that make the reality of the fact that she has some disabilities; a sobering thing to face at times. I was specifically seeing some symptoms of cerebral palsy, but that isn't my call b/c i'm not a Dr. We did see that Dr. today, but more on that later. So...... I was discouraged last week. My body was tired. I was struggling with self-pity. I was sad or maybe weepy, perhaps both. All icky things. I still knew and held fast to the fact that Christ is my savior and apart from Him I am doomed, so I still have much to be thankful for, I tried to set my mind on that. Thankfully Mike was able to have the past weekend off of work and we were able to re-group. He helped me to tidy, we showed hospitality to some sweet friends, which we love doing, and had a team meeting on Sunday, which consisted of discussing some parenting issues, some budget goals, ect...... very refreshing to be on the same page. Monday rolled around and I had a fresh set of legs under me. Thank you if you prayed for me, the Lord answered. This week has been especially full, and the Lord has graced me to dance though it thus far.

Something fun we've committed our time to this week and next is swim lessons for the older children. We think it is a good investment of time and money to have some safety skills in the water. A friend(thanks Melissa) gave me the name of a women who does them at her home. So it is just my children and a friends children, 4 in all, taking lessons. On the first day, Tuesday, Mrs. Susan the instructor cut up watermelon for the children for after the lesson and they got to help her feed the rhine to the horses. They loved that! The price is so agreeable, I have the notion to heavily tip her for her good work. It is such a blessing. She is a very sweet, kind lady.

Hosea saw the urologist on Tuesday, for some man issues he's had since birth. We had been using some cream to correct the issue and it mostly worked, but at his follow-up Tuesday the Dr. realized that the cream couldn't fix all of the problem, and the little dude is going to have to have surgery soon to correct it.

Aggie saw the neurologist today. Her labs came back that were ordered at her last appointment. They indicated that her cells are a little more acidic than they should be. This is going to require further testing. The Dr. is checking for mitochondrial diseases (there are several different ones). Let me try and explain....This might be confusing if you didn't pay attention in science class. If you remember the little cell diagram in biology class, there was the big circle in the middle of the cell, the nucleus, some ribosome's,...ect. the mitochondria was also in there, it was the little hot-dog with a zipper one, anyway it's purpose is to create energy for the cell from the food it receives. So in short they are checking to see if Aggies little hot-dog's with zippers are working properly. She will also have an EEG of her brain, mid-June, and has a referral to see a GI doctor. None of this testing is a rush since Aggie is continuing to develop and hasn't had any unusual symptoms other than her delayed developmental stuff, and lot's of smiles.

Friday physical therapy was an encouraging day for me. I have been praying fervently for Aggies legs to work properly. It is truly the cry of my heart, as I desire deeply that she would some day be able to walk. At physical therapy friday the therapist told me, "that it seems Aggies brain is finding new path ways for her to be able to use legs, there tone is looking more normal". This has been my exact prayer!!! God is amazing to look upon us in this, my heart is overwhelmed with gratefulness at this news. We serve a God who cares and hears us!

If you are lead to pray for us as we continue to press on toward the finish line please petition the Lord for Aggies continued development; generally speaking, her arms and torso are area's we are exercising more right now. Pray for her to sit-up independently. Please also pray for me. I am thankful to be encouraged right now, but am certain this flesh will fail me as some point, and I will need lifted up again. Thank you so much for walking with me though this.

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Radical

If you haven't read or listened to the book "Radical: taking back your Faith from the American Dream" by. David Platt you should. It is so challenging and convicting, but soo good! I'm excited about it!

Exciting Hair

We love Aggies hair, we call it her "exciting hair" It does this naturally. I sometimes lotion it to try and calm it down, but it only lasts for about a couple hours. It's so fun, and super soft! The other day I remembered the fun of bows and little girls.............................
This is my attempt to make it exciting in a whole new way, pretty and exciting. I'll probably use smaller ones in the future, but this one matched her outfit.

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Missouri


Easter Day, after worshiping our risen Lord, we participated in a family tradition at my parents house. The easter egg hunt. Since my childhood, hundreds(500 this year) of stuffed eggs are hidden through out my parents (use to be grandparents) yard. Many extended family members gather, feast and hunt eggs. This is the traditional picture of all the children on the steps right before the hunt begins. There are a few adults holding babies, b/c naturally we would hate to leave out the babies. I have lots of aunts, uncles and cousins. Several were out of town this year. A few years ago I counted all the people at my parents home for this event and got to 80 and stopped. I have a very large family.
While we were in Missouri we went camping at the lake for a long weekend, something I did much of in my childhood. Here is Shiloh with her pet bug "Lilly". She named it that b/c she misses her 2 Lilly's in NC. By time the weekend was over she had at least 4 Lilly's.


My father retired the Saturday before Easter. He worked 36 years for 3M. He's always been a hard worker and provided for our family in abundance. Thanks Dad!! He and my younger brother rode back to FL with the children and I, so Mike could come back and work, while the children and I stayed and visited for a while. Since he's retired, he had some time to spare. Here were are playing at Navarre beach. This was the prettiest day I've had at the beach, possibly in my life time. The water was clear, blue and calm. The temp was low 80's and not to windy, perfect for an infant. The water was a bit cool, but the children didn't seem to mind and neither did our visitors from the North. The baby and I sat in the shade most of the time.

Friday, May 6, 2011

We're back

We went to Missouri April 23rd and returned last night. My younger brother and father returned with me so I will be busy entertaining for a week or so.